Hubby hates her family and now wants a divorce; She asked him to accept her sister and nephew, and he suddenly wanted out

Dear Ellie: My husband hates my sister and my parents. He hassaid the only way he can have a relationship with me is to avoidhaving one with them. I agreed to this.

We discussed the possibility of adopting a child. He said hecould not, due to his chronic pain issues.

I've devoted my life to bettering the lives of children; this wasa real blow. So I comforted myself that I have nieces and nephews,and eventually will have grandchildren from my stepkids (who weregrown when I married him).

I asked if he would allow my sister the opportunity to make upwith him for the sake of my nephew. He agreed. Two days later heused my request as grounds for divorce. …